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Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Everyone says she's beautiful
Cheyanne, 14, from US, asks:
Guys just don't seem to be that interested in me. My friends, family, and even some random people I have met say that I am beautiful, and I do not find myself that bad looking. I also sing well (not to boast) and make straight "A"s most of the time in school. Everyone says guys are just intimidated by me. Is this true? It would be great to know what is really going on.
VictorM's advice:
Ah! The curse of the beautiful girl. Yes, most guys are afraid to approach you. The reasons are logical, if you think about it. The average boy probably feels you're out of his league. Guys are deadly afraid of rejection, so why try their luck with a beautiful, smart girl with one of the coolest names in the land? Many guys will look at you and be sure that a girl as attractive as you already has a boyfriend. Yet others are too insecure to date a beautiful girl because they fear that other boys would be all over you.
As guys get older they start getting more courageous. So enjoy the peace and quiet now. By the time you're 17 or 18 you'll be fighting the smelly boys off with a baseball bat.
Guys just don't seem to be that interested in me. My friends, family, and even some random people I have met say that I am beautiful, and I do not find myself that bad looking. I also sing well (not to boast) and make straight "A"s most of the time in school. Everyone says guys are just intimidated by me. Is this true? It would be great to know what is really going on.
VictorM's advice:
Ah! The curse of the beautiful girl. Yes, most guys are afraid to approach you. The reasons are logical, if you think about it. The average boy probably feels you're out of his league. Guys are deadly afraid of rejection, so why try their luck with a beautiful, smart girl with one of the coolest names in the land? Many guys will look at you and be sure that a girl as attractive as you already has a boyfriend. Yet others are too insecure to date a beautiful girl because they fear that other boys would be all over you.
As guys get older they start getting more courageous. So enjoy the peace and quiet now. By the time you're 17 or 18 you'll be fighting the smelly boys off with a baseball bat.
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