CoffeeChats, 25, from UK, asks:

I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months and it has been strange. He's a devout muslim and told me he cannot be alone with a woman or be intimate with her in any way at all. At the same time, he kept coming to see me at weekends (we work together). Seeing each other turned into holding hands, holding hands turned into kissing. Recently we had a full on makeout session.
The next day he comes up to me and he says he sees me as a great friend because he can talk to me about anything and I inspire him. At the same time as enjoying my company, he is enormously attracted to me in every way - so strong a way that he cannot resist kissing and touching me because I am so attractive to him. I fill his mind with thoughts of me he says. So, because he feels this way - we must cut all ties.

HUH?!!?

So I say ok, if thats how it has to be, I will fulfill my part and not try and contact him.

Appox. 8 hours later, he text me to say goodnight.

DOUBLE HUH?!?

Whats with this dude?

I am tremendously confused.

VictorM's advice:

I can understand him. He's fighting the (I'll be polite) stuff that religion has shoved into his head.
What I can't understand is you. Why would you want to encourage him knowing what would be in store for you?

At least he has convictions, even if he falters from time to time. You? You're either a glutton for punishment or you're messing with the guy. Either way, not smart.

What do you think your life would be like with him?

QUADRUPLE HUH?!?