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Friday, September 28, 2007
A definite moment
Shelby, 20, from California, asks:
Is this just a case of the guy being shy?
We've gone out once, but talked on AIM soooo much in between then and now (last weekend was the 'then'). At the end of the date, there was a definite moment, but for some reason, the kiss didn't happen.
He keeps talking about longer-range stuff- Halloween, when he moves into his new apt in a few weeks, etc., and every night when I talk to him asks me how my day was (to any guys reading this: it gets you major brownie points!). But... I'm confused. If he really didn't see any future, this would all stop, right? No more "how was your day," remembering exact details, etc... I'm not completely crazy? Then why won't he make the more immediate plans?
THANKS :-D
VictorM's advice:
Oh my lord! You're stuck in a romance novel! "Definite moment"? "The kiss"? Free your mind, child; get out of the silly books and join the human race! :)
Maybe some shyness is involved but from your description, I'd say he's behaving exactly as a guy who is seriously interested in you would: he wants to take things slow, he wants to court you, he wants to seduce you.
Let him. Slow down and enjoy the ride.
Is this just a case of the guy being shy?
We've gone out once, but talked on AIM soooo much in between then and now (last weekend was the 'then'). At the end of the date, there was a definite moment, but for some reason, the kiss didn't happen.
He keeps talking about longer-range stuff- Halloween, when he moves into his new apt in a few weeks, etc., and every night when I talk to him asks me how my day was (to any guys reading this: it gets you major brownie points!). But... I'm confused. If he really didn't see any future, this would all stop, right? No more "how was your day," remembering exact details, etc... I'm not completely crazy? Then why won't he make the more immediate plans?
THANKS :-D
VictorM's advice:
Oh my lord! You're stuck in a romance novel! "Definite moment"? "The kiss"? Free your mind, child; get out of the silly books and join the human race! :)
Maybe some shyness is involved but from your description, I'd say he's behaving exactly as a guy who is seriously interested in you would: he wants to take things slow, he wants to court you, he wants to seduce you.
Let him. Slow down and enjoy the ride.
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