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Friday, August 31, 2007
What can she do to make sure he doesn't cheat?
Jeannie, 14, from Georgia, asks:
My boyfriend is going to be in high school while I am still gonna be in 8th grade. I trust him but I'm not sure if I can trust the girls that he will meet in his freshman year. What can I do to make sure he doesn't cheat, etc?
VictorM's advice:
Nothing! Whether your boyfriend cheats or not has nothing to do with you; it's all about his values. It has nothing to do with how you dress, talk, kiss, check on him, treat him, love him, ignore him... it has NOTHING to do with you. If he's not happy with you he should leave you, if he's happy with you, he should respect himself and be faithful. You shouldn't even think about it.
Don't worry about the high school girls. There's nothing they can do if he has his values in place and nothing you can do if he doesn't.
Trust him. It's the surest way to find happiness in a relationship.
My boyfriend is going to be in high school while I am still gonna be in 8th grade. I trust him but I'm not sure if I can trust the girls that he will meet in his freshman year. What can I do to make sure he doesn't cheat, etc?
VictorM's advice:
Nothing! Whether your boyfriend cheats or not has nothing to do with you; it's all about his values. It has nothing to do with how you dress, talk, kiss, check on him, treat him, love him, ignore him... it has NOTHING to do with you. If he's not happy with you he should leave you, if he's happy with you, he should respect himself and be faithful. You shouldn't even think about it.
Don't worry about the high school girls. There's nothing they can do if he has his values in place and nothing you can do if he doesn't.
Trust him. It's the surest way to find happiness in a relationship.
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