G, 26, from NYC, asks:

I had three "sort-of dates" with a guy (friend of a friend) in one week, we slept together twice, and now I have no idea where we stand. He hasn't called and took 3 days to respond to a casual text. I don't know if he's "just not into me" or if he's taking a breather since we saw each other 3 times the first week of knowing each other, and that was only one week ago.

Here is how the marathon week transpired: The morning after our first date (we slept together) he suggested doing something on Wed., but then didn't call to confirm. I called him, he sounded surprised, but we did keep the Wed plan. During that date I mentioned my Friday plans and he invited himself along, again a group thing. We hung out alone afterward for several hours and he invited me home--I went.

We haven't spoken since. Just a couple of texts with long delay in between. I want to just "see what happens," but also don't want to maintain hope if I'm just being a silly girl who gave it up too quickly. Help?

VictorM's advice:

His seems to be a natural and wise path to finding out more about you before you two become an item. You may not like the pace, but what he's doing is what most sensible guys do. He's taking it nice, slow, and easy. So try to control that screaming biological clock of yours and enjoy the ride.