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Friday, August 24, 2007
She's attracted to an exotic dancer
Soo, 26, from SG, asks:
How do I attract a guy who works as an exotic dancer in a club? He knows he's very good looking. Women throw themselves at him everyday. I just want to intrigue him enough so that he will want to go out with me on a date. This is not a relationship seeking type of question.
VictorM's answer:
Do you even know him outside of the stage? Are you friends with him or at least talk to him when he's in "civilian clothing"? Because if you are, then ask him what probably no other woman asks him -- for a date to a movie, or museum, or someplace you know he's like to go as a normal guy. I would guess most women assume he has tons of dates or just emphasize his looks. Do something different. No guarantee he'll respond but that's my best suggestion.
If you only know him from where he works, that is, if you're only a customer then I really have no idea how you get his attention.
Anyone have other suggestions for Soo? And please, no lecturing Soo on her choice of guy, just provide an idea how she could go out with the guy.
How do I attract a guy who works as an exotic dancer in a club? He knows he's very good looking. Women throw themselves at him everyday. I just want to intrigue him enough so that he will want to go out with me on a date. This is not a relationship seeking type of question.
VictorM's answer:
Do you even know him outside of the stage? Are you friends with him or at least talk to him when he's in "civilian clothing"? Because if you are, then ask him what probably no other woman asks him -- for a date to a movie, or museum, or someplace you know he's like to go as a normal guy. I would guess most women assume he has tons of dates or just emphasize his looks. Do something different. No guarantee he'll respond but that's my best suggestion.
If you only know him from where he works, that is, if you're only a customer then I really have no idea how you get his attention.
Anyone have other suggestions for Soo? And please, no lecturing Soo on her choice of guy, just provide an idea how she could go out with the guy.
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