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Tuesday, August 28, 2007
He is a bit selfish and stubborn
Allison, 23, from Washington, DC, asks:
My boyfriend is in two softball leagues, one wallyball league, a flag football league, and plays golf at least once a week and he also goes away at least 4 long weekends a year with his guy friends. On the weekends he goes away, he gets so drunk that he can't hold a phone conversation with me at the end of the night. Am I justified in saying that he is a bit selfish and stubborn because he opts to be involved in everything without regards for me and our time together, let alone getting so wasted he can't even talk?
VictorM's advice:
Well, you can call him all the names you want, but it won't change the fact that he likes what he likes and he's out doing it. Maybe it would be a better use of your time to search for words that describe a woman who is still his girlfriend.
My boyfriend is in two softball leagues, one wallyball league, a flag football league, and plays golf at least once a week and he also goes away at least 4 long weekends a year with his guy friends. On the weekends he goes away, he gets so drunk that he can't hold a phone conversation with me at the end of the night. Am I justified in saying that he is a bit selfish and stubborn because he opts to be involved in everything without regards for me and our time together, let alone getting so wasted he can't even talk?
VictorM's advice:
Well, you can call him all the names you want, but it won't change the fact that he likes what he likes and he's out doing it. Maybe it would be a better use of your time to search for words that describe a woman who is still his girlfriend.
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Whatever you do, don't nag. And get some hobbies of your own. Don't be so available for him. Maybe if you weren't there when he calls home drunk he'll start to reconsider his actions. And if he doesn't? Then he is a selfish child who needs to grow the fuck up.
Having fun is OK, but it sounds like he's trying desperately to hold on to his "youth" through sports overkill.
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Having fun is OK, but it sounds like he's trying desperately to hold on to his "youth" through sports overkill.
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