Matilda, 14, from Asia, asks:

Hey..it's me again..why are boys so confusing? I mean my boyfriend, he's like the most confusing guy ever. Sometimes he doesn't get what I want him to do he can be clueless sometimes. You know when you said to say "kiss me, you fool". Well, what if he thinks I just want a kiss from him? Like once when we were chatting he said that the way I typed looked like I really wanted to kiss him, who doesn't want to kiss their boyfriend? I know I'm being a little harsh, trying to get over it and hopefully I will. What else should I know about 15 year old boys? Would they rather hang out with their friends than their girlfriends? My boyfriend is like shy sometimes and when we talk there's sometimes silence. Of course I don't want to break up with him. But what else should I do?

VictorM's advice:

Matilda.. Matilda... Matilda. You're thinking wayyyyyy too much! It's a kiss! Kiss the freaking guy already! It's just a kiss! You won't get pregnant, you're not invading a country, you're not blowing up the planet. It's just a kiss. Kiss the little freaking toad already!

Fifteen year old boys talk a big game amongst themselves, but they are scared shitless about that first kiss, their first make out session and where it might lead. So... sometimes it's safer to go play video games with the guys. Don't take it personally. It's just a tormenting time for boys in that age group.

There's something else about 15 year old boys you ought to know. They're sloppy with their bathroom habits and their underwear can get smelly and ugly with stains. Hey, I'm just passing on information. :)