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Tuesday, July 24, 2007
His ex is abusive and mean
ALLISON, 21, from PORT ROYAL, VA, asks:
My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex. She is abusive and mean... Why would he rather have that?
VictorM's advice:
He wanted sex, nothing else mattered at the time. He didn't evaluate, he didn't ponder, he didn't compare. I'm not defending him, just saying there was no thought process in that decision.
Sometimes, just sometimes, having sex with an ex is an act of revenge, not an act of caring.
My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex. She is abusive and mean... Why would he rather have that?
VictorM's advice:
He wanted sex, nothing else mattered at the time. He didn't evaluate, he didn't ponder, he didn't compare. I'm not defending him, just saying there was no thought process in that decision.
Sometimes, just sometimes, having sex with an ex is an act of revenge, not an act of caring.
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