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Tuesday, July 24, 2007
He was his usual funny self
Belle, 35, from los angeles, asks:
The guy who dumped me last year called me 2 months ago to say Hi (we dated for only a month). He never called again, so I called him. The conversation went well and he asked me out for dinner. The dinner went well... he was his usual funny self. I had fun, he never flirted though. At the end of the date, instead of a kiss, he just gave me a hug and said "let me know if you feel like hanging out." I didn't hear from him ever. What was that? Did he ask me out because he was feeling guilty about last year?
VictorM's advice:
Doesn't sound like guilt is involved.
Look, he broke up with you, that doesn't mean he hates your guts. Sounds like he thinks highly of you, just not in a romantic way. Now he's being polite and friendly. That's all it means.
The guy who dumped me last year called me 2 months ago to say Hi (we dated for only a month). He never called again, so I called him. The conversation went well and he asked me out for dinner. The dinner went well... he was his usual funny self. I had fun, he never flirted though. At the end of the date, instead of a kiss, he just gave me a hug and said "let me know if you feel like hanging out." I didn't hear from him ever. What was that? Did he ask me out because he was feeling guilty about last year?
VictorM's advice:
Doesn't sound like guilt is involved.
Look, he broke up with you, that doesn't mean he hates your guts. Sounds like he thinks highly of you, just not in a romantic way. Now he's being polite and friendly. That's all it means.
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