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Sunday, July 29, 2007
He has the urge to talk to other women
Shae, 19, from NC, asks:
I have been in relationship with a guy for 3 1/2 years and we have a child together, she will be one in September. The other day he told me that he looks at other women (which isn't that big of a deal because if he didn't we would have a problem) but he said he also has the urge to talk to other women. He said he's never actually talked to any but he has the urge to. He also says he wants to be with me and he loves me but doesn't know how to stop the urge. What does this mean?
VictorM's advice:
It's not very clear to me what you mean by "talk to other women," but unless there's more to that expression that I'm not getting, it means he's a normal guy. You didn't say he's interested in seeing, dating, or having sex with other women, you said "talk".
Talk about what? Why doesn't he talk to them now? Don't you two have female friends? Does he have female coworkers?
Maybe you could write back and be a little more specific about what this talking to other women really means.
I have been in relationship with a guy for 3 1/2 years and we have a child together, she will be one in September. The other day he told me that he looks at other women (which isn't that big of a deal because if he didn't we would have a problem) but he said he also has the urge to talk to other women. He said he's never actually talked to any but he has the urge to. He also says he wants to be with me and he loves me but doesn't know how to stop the urge. What does this mean?
VictorM's advice:
It's not very clear to me what you mean by "talk to other women," but unless there's more to that expression that I'm not getting, it means he's a normal guy. You didn't say he's interested in seeing, dating, or having sex with other women, you said "talk".
Talk about what? Why doesn't he talk to them now? Don't you two have female friends? Does he have female coworkers?
Maybe you could write back and be a little more specific about what this talking to other women really means.
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