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Sunday, June 24, 2007
I wasn't honest enough
Youssa, 19, from Egypt, asks:
We were together, we were doing great. He broke up with me cause I wasn't honest enough and he didn't like lies at all. We're still in love, we steal moments to be together, but he says he can't be with someone he doesn't trust although he knows I changed!
VictorM's advice:
You changed? I don't believe you. Obviously, neither does he.
People who feel the need to lie do it for a reason. They just don't get up one day and decide they're going to stop lying. The lying covers some deeper problem, like shame, guilt, insecurity, etc. So unless you dig deeper and find out what compels you to lie, I wouldn't believe you either.
We were together, we were doing great. He broke up with me cause I wasn't honest enough and he didn't like lies at all. We're still in love, we steal moments to be together, but he says he can't be with someone he doesn't trust although he knows I changed!
VictorM's advice:
You changed? I don't believe you. Obviously, neither does he.
People who feel the need to lie do it for a reason. They just don't get up one day and decide they're going to stop lying. The lying covers some deeper problem, like shame, guilt, insecurity, etc. So unless you dig deeper and find out what compels you to lie, I wouldn't believe you either.
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