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Wednesday, June 27, 2007

 

I started falling for someone else

Kailey, 13, from Cali, asks:

Wow, I just love talking to you! Thanks so much for answering all my previous questions.

I've been talking to Jorge a little, but not a lot. It's been nice, but of course, I started falling for someone else. (yes, I am very busy :] )

His name is Ryan and during the school year, almost all my classes were with him. We were always just friends, but one day, my friend had a beach party (Tiffany) and he went along with my friend Dylanne (it is pronounced Dylan but yes, it's a girl!) who likes Ryan! Anyways, at the beach I just happened to mostly hang out with him. At one point, everyone else was in the water and we were sitting far away on the sand, just us and his friend Cody. Whenever Dylanne WAS there, she was always talking to him instead of me, and flirting and everything. He acted normal, but I wasn't sure if he liked her too. All I know is that they text each other a lot, and I do not have texting..

The next night, Ryan, Cody, and I met at a soccer field close to our houses and just hung out. It was really nice - and he seemed to act a lot more caring. He didn't seem to try and impress anyone.

But I have also heard his past girlfriends haven't been too serious, and didn't last long.
Does he like me?
If so, would our relationship last long?
If it doesn't, would we be friends after?

VictorM's advice:

You're 13, you're suppose to be a busy girl in this department.

Of course his girlfriends haven't been serious -- you're all around 13! :-p

Of course he likes you. Doesn't everyone?

Your relationship would last until you fall for someone else. At your pace, that would be next Tuesday.

Would he still be friends after? There's only one way to find out. So... go get him!

PS. Thanks for your kind words.

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