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Monday, June 25, 2007
I can't have sex with my boyfriend anymore
Becky, 23, from USA, asks:
I can't have sex with my boyfriend anymore or masturbate after he described how awesome his ex girlfriend's squirting cum was and I can't get it out of my head. What am I to do?
VictorM's advice:
Before I say anything else, I want to make it clear that I think your boyfriend is not the brightest crayon in the box; in fact, he's a major ass. OK, with that out of the way, let me give it shot here.
Are you thinking that because he liked the squirting he won't like a girl that doesn't squirt? If so, that's utter nonsense and I hope you realize it. For example, it's totally normal for a guy to find long hair on a girl sexy, but also find short hair on another girl equally as sexy. Or to like one girl's big boobs and to like another girl's small, perky ones. Same applies to varying degrees of wetness between girls.
It's totally likely that he thinks that one girl who squirted was awesome, and another who doesn't is equally as awesome. Most people don't think of lovers in their life as "better or worse" in bed; in most cases, they're simply different from one another and each one exciting in their own way.
And thanks to your question I can't get out of my head what a mess this girl must leave behind. I just hope Glad makes bed sheets too. It's one thing to have to wear condoms during sex, but a poncho and swimming goggles too? :-p
I can't have sex with my boyfriend anymore or masturbate after he described how awesome his ex girlfriend's squirting cum was and I can't get it out of my head. What am I to do?
VictorM's advice:
Before I say anything else, I want to make it clear that I think your boyfriend is not the brightest crayon in the box; in fact, he's a major ass. OK, with that out of the way, let me give it shot here.
Are you thinking that because he liked the squirting he won't like a girl that doesn't squirt? If so, that's utter nonsense and I hope you realize it. For example, it's totally normal for a guy to find long hair on a girl sexy, but also find short hair on another girl equally as sexy. Or to like one girl's big boobs and to like another girl's small, perky ones. Same applies to varying degrees of wetness between girls.
It's totally likely that he thinks that one girl who squirted was awesome, and another who doesn't is equally as awesome. Most people don't think of lovers in their life as "better or worse" in bed; in most cases, they're simply different from one another and each one exciting in their own way.
And thanks to your question I can't get out of my head what a mess this girl must leave behind. I just hope Glad makes bed sheets too. It's one thing to have to wear condoms during sex, but a poncho and swimming goggles too? :-p
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As someone who squirts, trust me it's a big pain in the a--. It's a mess and I wish I didn't. I also want to say that my bf always thought I never orgasmed b/c I didn't do this little specific spasm that he saw on a video. So how's that for feeling like you can't do what he wants you too? Everybody's different.
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