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Monday, June 25, 2007
He was an imbecile
Alice H, 17, from USA, asks:
So I'm talking to this guy on the phone, and he has made a reference to me liking him (in joke form). I kinda do, but what's holding me back from liking him more is:
1) he is my best friend's ex and at the end of the relationship he was an imbecile
2) he proceeds to be 'bitter' over their relationships still and calls her names - in which I tell him to stop
3) he tells me these outlandish stories at 1 am, then when I bring them back up later, he says something like "what? I must have been half asleep" and then tells me the 'truth'
4) he proceeds to tell me how he would still try to sleep with a friend of mine (and another girl) if he could because he never got the chance.
So, what am asking is he really even interested in me? And after the story telling, no respect for a girl he loved, and speaking of sleeping with other girls, is he even worth it?
I'm leaning towards 'hell no'.
VictorM's advice:
You have seen this guy's true colors, so I'm surprised you're still leaning. Besides, he talks to you like you're one of the guys. That's not a sign of someone who's interested in you. Lucky you!
You called him an imbecile; you can double that for yourself if you pursue him.
So I'm talking to this guy on the phone, and he has made a reference to me liking him (in joke form). I kinda do, but what's holding me back from liking him more is:
1) he is my best friend's ex and at the end of the relationship he was an imbecile
2) he proceeds to be 'bitter' over their relationships still and calls her names - in which I tell him to stop
3) he tells me these outlandish stories at 1 am, then when I bring them back up later, he says something like "what? I must have been half asleep" and then tells me the 'truth'
4) he proceeds to tell me how he would still try to sleep with a friend of mine (and another girl) if he could because he never got the chance.
So, what am asking is he really even interested in me? And after the story telling, no respect for a girl he loved, and speaking of sleeping with other girls, is he even worth it?
I'm leaning towards 'hell no'.
VictorM's advice:
You have seen this guy's true colors, so I'm surprised you're still leaning. Besides, he talks to you like you're one of the guys. That's not a sign of someone who's interested in you. Lucky you!
You called him an imbecile; you can double that for yourself if you pursue him.
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