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Wednesday, June 20, 2007
He loves to dance and be in clubs
Amber, 21, from Florida, asks:
I have been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 15 months. He loves to dance and be in clubs. I personally don't like to dance, so it makes an awkward situation when we go out. He usually will dance by himself, but last night I found him grinding with another girl. I took him outside and asked him what he was doing and told him it bothered me. He didn't seem to care and continued dancing. I ended up leaving without him and now we're fighting because he feels I blew it out of proportion. I'm I right to be upset or was he just having fun?
VictorM's advice:
If you knew when you met him that he liked clubs and dancing, and if you don't dance, what do you expect? Grinding, last time I checked, was part of the dancing scene. And if he does it in front of you chances are he has no malice; sounds like he's only enjoying the dancing.
When he was dancing the first time around he probably was just having fun. But after you told him it bothered you he was at best disrespectful to you, unless he was only dancing the second time around and not grinding. If this was the case, yes, you are blowing it out of proportion. So say you're sorry and make it up to him -- buy him a tutu.
I have been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 15 months. He loves to dance and be in clubs. I personally don't like to dance, so it makes an awkward situation when we go out. He usually will dance by himself, but last night I found him grinding with another girl. I took him outside and asked him what he was doing and told him it bothered me. He didn't seem to care and continued dancing. I ended up leaving without him and now we're fighting because he feels I blew it out of proportion. I'm I right to be upset or was he just having fun?
VictorM's advice:
If you knew when you met him that he liked clubs and dancing, and if you don't dance, what do you expect? Grinding, last time I checked, was part of the dancing scene. And if he does it in front of you chances are he has no malice; sounds like he's only enjoying the dancing.
When he was dancing the first time around he probably was just having fun. But after you told him it bothered you he was at best disrespectful to you, unless he was only dancing the second time around and not grinding. If this was the case, yes, you are blowing it out of proportion. So say you're sorry and make it up to him -- buy him a tutu.
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