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Sunday, June 24, 2007
He doesn't necessarily want to get married
Jessica, 26, from California, asks:
I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 2 years. We have lived together for 1 year. I want to get married and I've expressed this. He doesn't necessarily want to get married since he feels that we shouldn't have to have a paper to get everything official. However, he says we will and he'll ask me when I don't bring it up . . . he wants to surprise me . . . He's 30 (we live together, own a home together) Will he ask me or is this a just a cop-out??
VictorM's advice:
You live and own a home together. I doubt he would get that far if he wanted to cop-out. He will ask you.
Sounds like he wants to surprise you, but you seem bent on spoiling it. You've already told him that marriage is important to you. Now back off, woman. Your timetable is not the only one that matters. Give the guy the chance to make you cry when he pops the question when you least expect it.
I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 2 years. We have lived together for 1 year. I want to get married and I've expressed this. He doesn't necessarily want to get married since he feels that we shouldn't have to have a paper to get everything official. However, he says we will and he'll ask me when I don't bring it up . . . he wants to surprise me . . . He's 30 (we live together, own a home together) Will he ask me or is this a just a cop-out??
VictorM's advice:
You live and own a home together. I doubt he would get that far if he wanted to cop-out. He will ask you.
Sounds like he wants to surprise you, but you seem bent on spoiling it. You've already told him that marriage is important to you. Now back off, woman. Your timetable is not the only one that matters. Give the guy the chance to make you cry when he pops the question when you least expect it.
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