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Saturday, June 23, 2007
He always talks about me
Chelsea, 17, from Waterford PA, asks:
HELP ME! =] Okay this guy I have been hanging out for 3 weeks and is constantly flirting with me and taking me almost every where he goes. His best friend tells me that he always talks about me. Then the other night I snuck up to so I could hang out with him and after 4 hours he calls and breaks up with his girlfriend, right in front of me. (She's been saying she's pregnant so he wouldn't break up with her but shes not). So I am thinking that he's going to ask me out. So we had sex then he says I don't think we should tell anyone about this. I thought at first that he was just using me but then when I got up to leave he begged me not to. He said that he wasn't ready for me yet and that he's confused. He decided that we should just be friends. After 30 minutes of talking I had to go home. As I was walking out he gave me a hug. He said that he got a shiver down his spine and that he always gets that when he's with me. He finished by saying that that is the reason why he thinks he likes me so much...ugh!! Help me please. He's called me since then but I missed his call. Tell me what's going on in his head!!
VictorM's answer:
He likes you as "friends with benefits"; he will say what you need to hear so that you go along with it; he won't burn any bridges with anybody else, hence the request to keep it quiet; and he's so happy you're a sucker who's going along for the the ride.
HELP ME! =] Okay this guy I have been hanging out for 3 weeks and is constantly flirting with me and taking me almost every where he goes. His best friend tells me that he always talks about me. Then the other night I snuck up to so I could hang out with him and after 4 hours he calls and breaks up with his girlfriend, right in front of me. (She's been saying she's pregnant so he wouldn't break up with her but shes not). So I am thinking that he's going to ask me out. So we had sex then he says I don't think we should tell anyone about this. I thought at first that he was just using me but then when I got up to leave he begged me not to. He said that he wasn't ready for me yet and that he's confused. He decided that we should just be friends. After 30 minutes of talking I had to go home. As I was walking out he gave me a hug. He said that he got a shiver down his spine and that he always gets that when he's with me. He finished by saying that that is the reason why he thinks he likes me so much...ugh!! Help me please. He's called me since then but I missed his call. Tell me what's going on in his head!!
VictorM's answer:
He likes you as "friends with benefits"; he will say what you need to hear so that you go along with it; he won't burn any bridges with anybody else, hence the request to keep it quiet; and he's so happy you're a sucker who's going along for the the ride.
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