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lindsey, 22, from scotland, says:

'talk about feeling like a princess' I want to reply to this girl's dilemma. Don't listen to Victor. I think it was a bit harsh for him to reply that way to you. Listen... me and my fiancee broke up and didn't speak for over a month, no contact, I thought he didn't care either but he was waiting for me to get him. I didn't. Eventually he came around and he was going through a hard time that I didn't know of and now we are happy, so it's possible your boyfriend is just going through a bad time and not telling you, he may feel you bailed out and that you didn't care and he's even more upset but you had no choice to as he wasn't communicating to you. Contact him, what have you got to lose?? No regrets!

VictorM's comment:

I'm glad things worked out for you and your fiance, although I have to say, to be the fiance of someone who doesn't share his hard times with his soon to be wife doesn't give me too much confidence that communication is a priority, but if it's working for you, great.

I do agree that Angie has nothing to lose by calling. I didn't say when I answered her submission because nowhere did she ask me that question.

But I still think Angie's situation is different from yours. You were engaged and had a fight (I'm assuming). But this is what Angie said: "About 8 weeks ago he started to pull away. Not call like he used to when out of town, not as attentive. He would say he would do things and then he would not." So in Angie's case we have a gradual pulling away; that was not your case. It is this pulling away that led me to answer as I did.

In any case, thank you Lindsey for taking the time to write. Angie can only gain from another point of view.