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Tuesday, May 29, 2007
We hit it off on the phone
margaret, 39, from CT, asks:
I went out to meet a guy via (on-line). We hit it off on the phone. Anyway, I think I made a great first impression..but later...after 3 martinis...I was altered. I left the bar after getting huffy with him for saying I looked heavier than my pictures (he's right). Anyway, I spent the night in my car vomiting. The next day I saw he "closed" the connection. I called to apologize..left it on his voice mail. He called back, claiming he closed it because he thought I'd want nothing to do with him and he invited me to dinner at his house. We had a nice time. I left after some great kisses. I found him to be very sweet.. but now, I am thinking.. could he have been feeling guilty? He hasn't called and it's been 24 hours. We're past the "2 day rule" aren't we??
VictorM's answer:
Sounds to me like he felt guilty he said you were fatter than your picture (this guy needs an emergency remedial class on dealing with women, I tell you!) and he thought you'd never speak to him again. I think he was relieved and pleased you were OK with him.
I wish that women at birth were implanted with a chip that lets them know this important fact: Most guys hate calling on the phone. They hate it! So, make nothing of him not having called.
Oh, and forget about these little rules. That is so middle-school or idiotic self-help stuff.
I went out to meet a guy via (on-line). We hit it off on the phone. Anyway, I think I made a great first impression..but later...after 3 martinis...I was altered. I left the bar after getting huffy with him for saying I looked heavier than my pictures (he's right). Anyway, I spent the night in my car vomiting. The next day I saw he "closed" the connection. I called to apologize..left it on his voice mail. He called back, claiming he closed it because he thought I'd want nothing to do with him and he invited me to dinner at his house. We had a nice time. I left after some great kisses. I found him to be very sweet.. but now, I am thinking.. could he have been feeling guilty? He hasn't called and it's been 24 hours. We're past the "2 day rule" aren't we??
VictorM's answer:
Sounds to me like he felt guilty he said you were fatter than your picture (this guy needs an emergency remedial class on dealing with women, I tell you!) and he thought you'd never speak to him again. I think he was relieved and pleased you were OK with him.
I wish that women at birth were implanted with a chip that lets them know this important fact: Most guys hate calling on the phone. They hate it! So, make nothing of him not having called.
Oh, and forget about these little rules. That is so middle-school or idiotic self-help stuff.
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