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Wednesday, May 23, 2007
We are both not into the whole bar thing
Tanna, 28, from Canada, asks:
This guy that I started talking to and that I know we are both interested in each other because we have had talks, is 27. We are both not into the whole bar thing, we pretty much watch movies, do the whole bonfire thing with friends, he always stares at me and when I ask him about it he tells me that he was looking at something else. I went over to his house one night and I was the only female there. We all played pool and sat around and drank. He was teasing me the whole night like not moving when I need to take a shot and doing the whole pillow throw at me, and just staring and I have caught him doing that. His cousin was like "you two going out?" and I said no. Then his friend Jeff said to me: "are you and Joe going out?" and I said no. Then Jeff said to Joe: "why are you not going out with her? She is cute." Then today Joe was asking me what Jeff was talking to me about. It's kinda a weird thing, I know, but I need to know if he really likes me or if he just wants to be good friends.
VictorM's advice:
He likes you but he's not ready to ask you out. Not yet anyway. It's not unusual. Guys tend to prefer to stay informal longer than girls do. A friendship that slowly evolves into a relationship has a better chance of survival than one built on the high energy of initial lust.
PS. I'm stunned... two Canadians not into the bar thing. What is this world coming to? :)
This guy that I started talking to and that I know we are both interested in each other because we have had talks, is 27. We are both not into the whole bar thing, we pretty much watch movies, do the whole bonfire thing with friends, he always stares at me and when I ask him about it he tells me that he was looking at something else. I went over to his house one night and I was the only female there. We all played pool and sat around and drank. He was teasing me the whole night like not moving when I need to take a shot and doing the whole pillow throw at me, and just staring and I have caught him doing that. His cousin was like "you two going out?" and I said no. Then his friend Jeff said to me: "are you and Joe going out?" and I said no. Then Jeff said to Joe: "why are you not going out with her? She is cute." Then today Joe was asking me what Jeff was talking to me about. It's kinda a weird thing, I know, but I need to know if he really likes me or if he just wants to be good friends.
VictorM's advice:
He likes you but he's not ready to ask you out. Not yet anyway. It's not unusual. Guys tend to prefer to stay informal longer than girls do. A friendship that slowly evolves into a relationship has a better chance of survival than one built on the high energy of initial lust.
PS. I'm stunned... two Canadians not into the bar thing. What is this world coming to? :)
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