Walnut, 28, from New Zealand, asks:

I can't sleep tonight. (ex)boyfriend went out with my best friend tonight. They didn't explain anything to me before they went out. I rang up him a couple of times 30minutes and 45minutes later. He didn't pick up the phone. It's near 11pm, no one came back and he didn't ring me back. Imagine, if I do need help, this will be what happen to baby and me. I am really upset and can't stop my tears. I try to convince myself that we broke up. I need to accept the fact that he move on. It's so hard that this just happened in my own home, a broken home. I didn't explain much about this female friend last time. She told me in the weekend that my problem relationship affected her living in the house and she pissed me. Since that, we didn't really stay comfortable with each other. I did try to make the situation better for the past few days. But tonight... Staying in the house and seeing them talking, laughing and going out together is very hard for me. Perhaps I move out would make things better for three of us. I move to new place and meet new flatmates maybe better for me. If I ever have a friend in this country that I can stay with tonight, I had already run to there! Victor, thank you for your previous advice on staying. But I don't know how to work on my happiness when seeing this happen and the future... who know how far/fast they will go...

VictorM's advice:

I still think that the birth of the child may change his mind, but who knows, maybe it's more wishful thinking than a real possibility. Given the conditions you describe, and if you can find a safe place to stay, you should move out. If staying is making you that unhappy, a change may be in order.

Oh, and that friend of yours is a jerk.