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Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Walnut in a hostel
Walnut, 28, from New Zealand, asks:
Hi Victor,
I stayed in hostel these days. Something is really going on between my ex and my best friend in the house. My ex admitted that he really likes her and they share the same interests. I can't stay there. Financially I can't kick them both out and live in the house by myself. I don't want to have any hope on my relationship. I need to focus on a new life: baby and I. It's easy to say, but it's so hard. I miss him already. How can I move on to a new life and be happy again?!
VictorM's advice:
Walnut, you talk as if this man was the only source of your happiness; he is not. The only thing he is for sure is the source of your unhappiness.
Missing him is a process by which you remove him from your system. With him in the picture you'll have nothing but heartache. Every day you stay away from him your chances of finding happiness actually increase.
By the way, if you ever run into this ex-friend of your, kick her in the ass for me, will ya?
Hi Victor,
I stayed in hostel these days. Something is really going on between my ex and my best friend in the house. My ex admitted that he really likes her and they share the same interests. I can't stay there. Financially I can't kick them both out and live in the house by myself. I don't want to have any hope on my relationship. I need to focus on a new life: baby and I. It's easy to say, but it's so hard. I miss him already. How can I move on to a new life and be happy again?!
VictorM's advice:
Walnut, you talk as if this man was the only source of your happiness; he is not. The only thing he is for sure is the source of your unhappiness.
Missing him is a process by which you remove him from your system. With him in the picture you'll have nothing but heartache. Every day you stay away from him your chances of finding happiness actually increase.
By the way, if you ever run into this ex-friend of your, kick her in the ass for me, will ya?
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