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Thursday, May 24, 2007
I'm scared of rejection
Anonymous from Brooklyn Sims, asks:
There's this one guy at my school. I had a crush on him three times. And I now I'm crushing on him again. His name is Zachary. We're kind of good friends but I don't know him that well. I don't know how to tell him I like him face to face, ask him out to the movies, or ask if he wants to date and be together ( boyfriend and girlfriend ). I'm also scared of rejection. There's been so many guys that have said no or just didn't want to date me because I'm either too UGLY or I'm just A STUPID BLONDE. AND I REALLY....REALLY....REALLY.... like him a-lot. So PLEASE help me!
VictorM's advice:
Do not tell him you like him. Do not asking him about being boyfriend/girlfriend. Do not ask him on a date. What I suggest you do is mention things that will lead him to ask you out as friends at first, but you can go from there. For example, instead of inviting him to go see the movie Pirates of the Caribbean (because if you do and he says no you'll feel rejection) what you do is say: "I really want to see Pirates of the Caribbean but I really don't want to go alone." Now, if he says, "I'll go with you", great, you got yourself his company! If he doesn't say anything, there's no rejection because you never asked.
There's this one guy at my school. I had a crush on him three times. And I now I'm crushing on him again. His name is Zachary. We're kind of good friends but I don't know him that well. I don't know how to tell him I like him face to face, ask him out to the movies, or ask if he wants to date and be together ( boyfriend and girlfriend ). I'm also scared of rejection. There's been so many guys that have said no or just didn't want to date me because I'm either too UGLY or I'm just A STUPID BLONDE. AND I REALLY....REALLY....REALLY.... like him a-lot. So PLEASE help me!
VictorM's advice:
Do not tell him you like him. Do not asking him about being boyfriend/girlfriend. Do not ask him on a date. What I suggest you do is mention things that will lead him to ask you out as friends at first, but you can go from there. For example, instead of inviting him to go see the movie Pirates of the Caribbean (because if you do and he says no you'll feel rejection) what you do is say: "I really want to see Pirates of the Caribbean but I really don't want to go alone." Now, if he says, "I'll go with you", great, you got yourself his company! If he doesn't say anything, there's no rejection because you never asked.
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