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Wednesday, May 30, 2007
I think he is into me
rachel, 21, from wisconsin, asks:
I really like this guy and I think he is into me, but doesn't know it yet. We hang out a lot but I've asked him out and he said no. But he confides in me, and he tells me things that he won't tell others. How can I tell? He also had a bad relationship with someone he dated for five years, do you think this could be a problem too?
VictorM's advice:
I prior bad experience sure can make a guy get cautious, at least for a while, but don't confuse a guy thinking you're the kind he can confide in with one that he is into. I'm not saying he isn't, just cautioning you not to jump to that conclusion.
But what's the rush anyway? Enjoy his company, be a good friend, and eventually something will give. Guys generally move slower than girls into full fledged relationship.
I really like this guy and I think he is into me, but doesn't know it yet. We hang out a lot but I've asked him out and he said no. But he confides in me, and he tells me things that he won't tell others. How can I tell? He also had a bad relationship with someone he dated for five years, do you think this could be a problem too?
VictorM's advice:
I prior bad experience sure can make a guy get cautious, at least for a while, but don't confuse a guy thinking you're the kind he can confide in with one that he is into. I'm not saying he isn't, just cautioning you not to jump to that conclusion.
But what's the rush anyway? Enjoy his company, be a good friend, and eventually something will give. Guys generally move slower than girls into full fledged relationship.
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