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Thursday, May 24, 2007
I randomly called an old friend from high school
Anne, 20, from Boston, asks:
I randomly called an old friend from high school when I realized I was transferring to the college he attends, and he invited me to come and hang out one weekend night. Needless to say we ended up having a few too many drinks and had sex. We saw each two other times, one of which resulted in another hookup. It has been about a month since we have seen each other, yet he still IM's, and texts all the time and gives me the occasional call, but no invite to hang out. Why is he talking to me all the time if he doesn't want to see me? I have put forth obvious hints that I want to hang out, yet he doesn't seem to pick up on them. I know he is shy when it comes to social situations, I am interested but I don't know what to do now.
VictorM's advice:
I can see him not asking you to hang out fearing coming across as only wanting you for sex. But it seems that he likes you for more than just that.
I say stop with the hints (guys can be very dense about hints anyway) and invite him yourself.
I randomly called an old friend from high school when I realized I was transferring to the college he attends, and he invited me to come and hang out one weekend night. Needless to say we ended up having a few too many drinks and had sex. We saw each two other times, one of which resulted in another hookup. It has been about a month since we have seen each other, yet he still IM's, and texts all the time and gives me the occasional call, but no invite to hang out. Why is he talking to me all the time if he doesn't want to see me? I have put forth obvious hints that I want to hang out, yet he doesn't seem to pick up on them. I know he is shy when it comes to social situations, I am interested but I don't know what to do now.
VictorM's advice:
I can see him not asking you to hang out fearing coming across as only wanting you for sex. But it seems that he likes you for more than just that.
I say stop with the hints (guys can be very dense about hints anyway) and invite him yourself.
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