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Thursday, May 31, 2007
He tease me that I have curves
Anonymous asks:
OK so I like this guy who is two years older than me. Really friendly and funny. When it's just him and me he REALLY talks to me. And he hugs me. And one time when his dad called me "huge" ( because I'm 6'1" ) he told me I'm not and that he has no idea what he's talking about, that he didn't mean it like that. He teases me that I have curves because I don't like to admit it. And he touches my arm or hand, or if I touch his arm he tenses up, then slowly relaxes but when we are around other people he doesn't talk to me so much and if he does it's always inside jokes. I caught him staring at me a few times and smiling when some people though I was his girlfriend... but he has a girlfriend, one he has had for 3 years who I'm friends with too. I think I'm in love with him. What do I do?
VictorM's advice:
You do nothing. He has a girlfriend so you should do nothing different than what you do now. Maybe you're misreading his reactions. Maybe he does like you but feels bad about breaking up with his girlfriend. Maybe he likes her as his girlfriend and you as his friend. But forget all the maybes -- unless and until he breaks-up with her, you're a friend. Behave just like one.
You don't like to admit you have curves? *shakes head* Curves = good. It sure is from a guy's point of view.
OK so I like this guy who is two years older than me. Really friendly and funny. When it's just him and me he REALLY talks to me. And he hugs me. And one time when his dad called me "huge" ( because I'm 6'1" ) he told me I'm not and that he has no idea what he's talking about, that he didn't mean it like that. He teases me that I have curves because I don't like to admit it. And he touches my arm or hand, or if I touch his arm he tenses up, then slowly relaxes but when we are around other people he doesn't talk to me so much and if he does it's always inside jokes. I caught him staring at me a few times and smiling when some people though I was his girlfriend... but he has a girlfriend, one he has had for 3 years who I'm friends with too. I think I'm in love with him. What do I do?
VictorM's advice:
You do nothing. He has a girlfriend so you should do nothing different than what you do now. Maybe you're misreading his reactions. Maybe he does like you but feels bad about breaking up with his girlfriend. Maybe he likes her as his girlfriend and you as his friend. But forget all the maybes -- unless and until he breaks-up with her, you're a friend. Behave just like one.
You don't like to admit you have curves? *shakes head* Curves = good. It sure is from a guy's point of view.
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