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Thursday, April 26, 2007
We never could talk
Jessie, 16, from Indiana asks:
I really like this guy. Turned out he liked me back but wanted to get to know me better first. We went out a couple of times, but we never could talk. We always both got nervous and then all of a sudden he won't talk to me. He told my best friend that he only liked me as a friend but is telling his best friend other things. I still catch him looking at me sometimes. How do I talk to him and get him interested again?
VictorM's advice:
If you couldn't talk before what makes you think you'll be able to talk now? But if you want to try again, make sure to ask him open ended questions about things that he knows well and is passionate about. Make him feel smart and he'll never stop talking. And don't be afraid to talk about the things you love. Chances are he'll enjoy hearing about them.
But also remember that how two people share silence says more about how they relate to each other than when they make noise.
I really like this guy. Turned out he liked me back but wanted to get to know me better first. We went out a couple of times, but we never could talk. We always both got nervous and then all of a sudden he won't talk to me. He told my best friend that he only liked me as a friend but is telling his best friend other things. I still catch him looking at me sometimes. How do I talk to him and get him interested again?
VictorM's advice:
If you couldn't talk before what makes you think you'll be able to talk now? But if you want to try again, make sure to ask him open ended questions about things that he knows well and is passionate about. Make him feel smart and he'll never stop talking. And don't be afraid to talk about the things you love. Chances are he'll enjoy hearing about them.
But also remember that how two people share silence says more about how they relate to each other than when they make noise.
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