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Friday, April 27, 2007
My boyfriend has two children with his ex-wife
ada, 33, from asia, asks:
My boyfriend has two children with his ex-wife. He asks me few times if I am willing to have baby with him. What does it mean? I asked him if he loves me. His answer is that I love him more than he loves me. In what situation, a man want to have a child with a woman? Because he loves her very much? thanks!
VictorM's answer:
Fathering a child and being in love don't have to be tied in any way. And it doesn't even mean he'll be committed to that woman. Just look at his ex-wife.
Maybe he thinks it'll make you happy? Maybe he wants another child because he likes children? Maybe he wants another tax deduction? Maybe it's a sign of machismo? I really don't know his reason, but being a show of love is probably not it.
The way he answered your question about love leaves me with the impression he isn't exactly holding in a high pedestal. But maybe he's just a guy who has a difficult time expressing his love with words. Maybe it's an Asian thing, I don't know.
My boyfriend has two children with his ex-wife. He asks me few times if I am willing to have baby with him. What does it mean? I asked him if he loves me. His answer is that I love him more than he loves me. In what situation, a man want to have a child with a woman? Because he loves her very much? thanks!
VictorM's answer:
Fathering a child and being in love don't have to be tied in any way. And it doesn't even mean he'll be committed to that woman. Just look at his ex-wife.
Maybe he thinks it'll make you happy? Maybe he wants another child because he likes children? Maybe he wants another tax deduction? Maybe it's a sign of machismo? I really don't know his reason, but being a show of love is probably not it.
The way he answered your question about love leaves me with the impression he isn't exactly holding in a high pedestal. But maybe he's just a guy who has a difficult time expressing his love with words. Maybe it's an Asian thing, I don't know.
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