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Wednesday, March 07, 2007
Job or Marriage?
Rose, 22
Groblersdal
Asks:
I'm a student doing a practical Year in Agriculture, I have the opportunity to walk into a good job after I graduate, but I'm also in love with a man 250km away, that wants to get married next year. I'm confused. What do I do?
Lee's Thoughts:
Are there no jobs where your man is? I'm confused.
I think it is blatantly obvious if you WANT to marry someone. If your job opportunities are better than his, why doesn't he move? Someone is going to have to sacrifice something if you are going to be together. Is either of you ready to do that?
Groblersdal
Asks:
I'm a student doing a practical Year in Agriculture, I have the opportunity to walk into a good job after I graduate, but I'm also in love with a man 250km away, that wants to get married next year. I'm confused. What do I do?
Lee's Thoughts:
Are there no jobs where your man is? I'm confused.
I think it is blatantly obvious if you WANT to marry someone. If your job opportunities are better than his, why doesn't he move? Someone is going to have to sacrifice something if you are going to be together. Is either of you ready to do that?
