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Friday, March 02, 2007
Abusive Boyfriend
crissy, 30, from NY asks:
I had an abusive boyfriend 10 years ago, it was a very bad breakup..threatening to kill me, stalking me for 5 years afterward (I just recently found this out, I had no idea). Last year we met again, and I decided to forgive him (after all it was 10 years ago) and we became friends. We went out as friends a few times, then I slept with him. Bad bad move, I know, should I be worried it will start again? Or should I believe him it was only sex and we can just be friends?
VictorM's advice:
Worry! And plenty! Break away from this guy. With people like him there is no "just sex" or "just friends". What do you think he'll do if you get a boyfriend? Just go quietly into the sunset? Come on!
You made a mistake when you became friends with him and an even bigger mistake having sex with him. Time to correct your mistakes... now!
I had an abusive boyfriend 10 years ago, it was a very bad breakup..threatening to kill me, stalking me for 5 years afterward (I just recently found this out, I had no idea). Last year we met again, and I decided to forgive him (after all it was 10 years ago) and we became friends. We went out as friends a few times, then I slept with him. Bad bad move, I know, should I be worried it will start again? Or should I believe him it was only sex and we can just be friends?
VictorM's advice:
Worry! And plenty! Break away from this guy. With people like him there is no "just sex" or "just friends". What do you think he'll do if you get a boyfriend? Just go quietly into the sunset? Come on!
You made a mistake when you became friends with him and an even bigger mistake having sex with him. Time to correct your mistakes... now!
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