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Saturday, February 17, 2007
Sex with another girl
amy, 24, from NY asks:
My boyfriend goes to college in MN and we won't see each other for about 5 months. We have been dating for 5 years. We have been talking about what if he wanted to have sex with someone up there. If he has sex with someone else I am scared that he will start to like the other girl? And why do guys want to have sex with different girls when they have someone?
VictorM's answer:
Guys like variety and they place no emotional attachment in the sex act. But if they have a partner, those wishes should not be acted upon. That's typically how it goes.
This is not the time for you to be a wuss. Tell him how you feel about that idea. If you go along with it, you have no one but yourself to blame. He's probably expecting you to put your foot down and say "no way!". Frankly, this shouldn't even be a topic of discussion.
Chances are that if he's going to start liking another girl, it will not be one with whom he has casual sex.
My boyfriend goes to college in MN and we won't see each other for about 5 months. We have been dating for 5 years. We have been talking about what if he wanted to have sex with someone up there. If he has sex with someone else I am scared that he will start to like the other girl? And why do guys want to have sex with different girls when they have someone?
VictorM's answer:
Guys like variety and they place no emotional attachment in the sex act. But if they have a partner, those wishes should not be acted upon. That's typically how it goes.
This is not the time for you to be a wuss. Tell him how you feel about that idea. If you go along with it, you have no one but yourself to blame. He's probably expecting you to put your foot down and say "no way!". Frankly, this shouldn't even be a topic of discussion.
Chances are that if he's going to start liking another girl, it will not be one with whom he has casual sex.
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