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Thursday, February 22, 2007
Kinds of questions to ask guys
allie, 15, from usa asks:
What kind of questions should I ask a guy to get to know him better without being intrusive?
VictorM's advice:
Ask him questions about topics you know he knows a lot about. For example, if he knows a lot about a certain sport, or video game, or music, whatever... ask him things about that subject. Do NOT start with personal questions. The reason is that guys generally don't like to talk about their feelings or highly personal stuff. They do like to talk about things they know a lot about because they feel they can impressing you.
Once he feels comfortable talking to you and you have not been judgmental, he's much more likely to talk about personal things. But you have to built trust and comfort first.
What kind of questions should I ask a guy to get to know him better without being intrusive?
VictorM's advice:
Ask him questions about topics you know he knows a lot about. For example, if he knows a lot about a certain sport, or video game, or music, whatever... ask him things about that subject. Do NOT start with personal questions. The reason is that guys generally don't like to talk about their feelings or highly personal stuff. They do like to talk about things they know a lot about because they feel they can impressing you.
Once he feels comfortable talking to you and you have not been judgmental, he's much more likely to talk about personal things. But you have to built trust and comfort first.
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