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Sunday, February 18, 2007
I have liked him forever
cass, 16, from Grove asks:
Let's see, I have been dating this guy for a year and three months but I have liked him forever. I am a junior in high school and he is a freshman in college. He has been gone for about 7 months and things have been going well but then he gave me his myspace password and stuff to get on and I found some messages to a girl calling her sexy. When I confronted him it really didn't bother him and he don't seem to care that I am having problems with this long distance relationship. He is not acting like himself. I don't think he has cheated on me yet but I do think he has thought about it. But he talks about our future a lot too. So I'm so confused.
VictorM's advice:
You're confused? So is he, I bet. He's away in college, most likely has strong feelings for you, but there's a whole new world around him. New friends, pressure to do more manly things, new girls around, parties... it's not easy for him either.
Is it possible that his comment to her means nothing? Yes, very possible. Guys often throw out those comments just for the hell of it. He gave you the password, so he's either stupid or innocent.
So what are you to do? I see only two options: either break-up with him if you can't handle the idea he might like someone else and can't cope with the distance, or trust him and make his life very pleasant when he talks to you. But giving him a hard time will just drive him away quicker.
Let's see, I have been dating this guy for a year and three months but I have liked him forever. I am a junior in high school and he is a freshman in college. He has been gone for about 7 months and things have been going well but then he gave me his myspace password and stuff to get on and I found some messages to a girl calling her sexy. When I confronted him it really didn't bother him and he don't seem to care that I am having problems with this long distance relationship. He is not acting like himself. I don't think he has cheated on me yet but I do think he has thought about it. But he talks about our future a lot too. So I'm so confused.
VictorM's advice:
You're confused? So is he, I bet. He's away in college, most likely has strong feelings for you, but there's a whole new world around him. New friends, pressure to do more manly things, new girls around, parties... it's not easy for him either.
Is it possible that his comment to her means nothing? Yes, very possible. Guys often throw out those comments just for the hell of it. He gave you the password, so he's either stupid or innocent.
So what are you to do? I see only two options: either break-up with him if you can't handle the idea he might like someone else and can't cope with the distance, or trust him and make his life very pleasant when he talks to you. But giving him a hard time will just drive him away quicker.
Labels: away at college, boyfriend, long distance relationship
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