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Wednesday, February 28, 2007
I blew it with this guy
Charisthma, 23, from San Francisco CA asks:
So I blew it with this guy I like by being weird and distant to him. I called him once after this incident and of course he didn't answer. I kind of deserve it but I'm still physically into him and I know he is with me also. What can I do, if anything, in the cosmos to get him back? I get the vibe that I could still have him but he's just as weird as me so this is complicated. Please think of something.
VictorM's advice:
Depending on what the incident was, it's possible that he'll never even give you the time of day ever again. Sometimes, that's how it goes. But if he still has any desire for you, time is your friend. After a while, guys forget what pissed them off, specially if there's a nice, physical reward to go with it.
Until he's ready to make contact, making a fuss about him is the worst thing you can do. Let him be. Next time you know you'll bump into him, look your absolute slutty best. For superficial relationships that might do the trick.
So I blew it with this guy I like by being weird and distant to him. I called him once after this incident and of course he didn't answer. I kind of deserve it but I'm still physically into him and I know he is with me also. What can I do, if anything, in the cosmos to get him back? I get the vibe that I could still have him but he's just as weird as me so this is complicated. Please think of something.
VictorM's advice:
Depending on what the incident was, it's possible that he'll never even give you the time of day ever again. Sometimes, that's how it goes. But if he still has any desire for you, time is your friend. After a while, guys forget what pissed them off, specially if there's a nice, physical reward to go with it.
Until he's ready to make contact, making a fuss about him is the worst thing you can do. Let him be. Next time you know you'll bump into him, look your absolute slutty best. For superficial relationships that might do the trick.
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