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Tuesday, February 13, 2007
He gave up at the end after trying so hard
judy, 27 asks:
Hello, I have been knowing a wonderful friend for a year now. In the past, we always email to each other everyday. He tried to get to know me better. But I kept a distance with him. He is great. Always there for me when I need someone to talk to. But I couldn't open myself completely to him by that time. So he gave up at the end after trying so hard. After few months, I tried to call him again and email him, but no reply. I don't want to lose this great friend. What should I do now?
VictorM's advice:
It's possible that he has a girlfriend and is not interesting in upsetting her (if so, he should at least reply and let you know that).
I think you already lost him but it doesn't hurt to email a few more times. But really, why should he reply? What is likely, if anything, to change? In any case, call and email a few more times. After that, give it up and find another friend.
Hello, I have been knowing a wonderful friend for a year now. In the past, we always email to each other everyday. He tried to get to know me better. But I kept a distance with him. He is great. Always there for me when I need someone to talk to. But I couldn't open myself completely to him by that time. So he gave up at the end after trying so hard. After few months, I tried to call him again and email him, but no reply. I don't want to lose this great friend. What should I do now?
VictorM's advice:
It's possible that he has a girlfriend and is not interesting in upsetting her (if so, he should at least reply and let you know that).
I think you already lost him but it doesn't hurt to email a few more times. But really, why should he reply? What is likely, if anything, to change? In any case, call and email a few more times. After that, give it up and find another friend.
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