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Friday, February 16, 2007
The Dog Sitter
julia, 32, from new jersey asks:
I wrote in about the dog that I was keeping for this guy a couple months ago. I still have the dog by the way. Anyway, we had gone out before I was keeping the dog. Well over a month ago, we were hanging out, he came over one night, was flirting back and forth, we kissed. Since then, we still hang out about once a week, but he has never tried to kiss me again, that was over a month ago. A couple weeks ago, he invited me to go to the movies, I went. But, when we talk on the phone, conversations last well over an hour, when he comes over to care for dog, he hangs out between 3 and 4 hours. Last time he was here, he was looking at me like he might like me. FYI, he is in school full time, works part time, doesn't have a lot of free time or money. I don't understand his behavior and neither do my friends.
VictorM's advice:
I remember your last question well. I'm surprised that between you and your friends you can't figure out what's so obvious. Think about it... he has a dog sitter for free and a companion when he chooses to, with no questions asked. Why would he want to change that? He kissed you once, realized you'd probably want more from him if the kissing, or more, continued, so he pulled back. He seems to enjoy your company, and he clearly wants you to keep the dog, so he's nice enough but not too nice.
I wrote in about the dog that I was keeping for this guy a couple months ago. I still have the dog by the way. Anyway, we had gone out before I was keeping the dog. Well over a month ago, we were hanging out, he came over one night, was flirting back and forth, we kissed. Since then, we still hang out about once a week, but he has never tried to kiss me again, that was over a month ago. A couple weeks ago, he invited me to go to the movies, I went. But, when we talk on the phone, conversations last well over an hour, when he comes over to care for dog, he hangs out between 3 and 4 hours. Last time he was here, he was looking at me like he might like me. FYI, he is in school full time, works part time, doesn't have a lot of free time or money. I don't understand his behavior and neither do my friends.
VictorM's advice:
I remember your last question well. I'm surprised that between you and your friends you can't figure out what's so obvious. Think about it... he has a dog sitter for free and a companion when he chooses to, with no questions asked. Why would he want to change that? He kissed you once, realized you'd probably want more from him if the kissing, or more, continued, so he pulled back. He seems to enjoy your company, and he clearly wants you to keep the dog, so he's nice enough but not too nice.
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