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Saturday, February 10, 2007
Bitch too much
Jami, 16, from Indiana asks:
I have been with this guy for now 2 years off and on.....now I am pregnant and due in March and he has been doing some drugs and he told me that I bitch too much so he needs his space but now he won't even talk to me. What does this mean? And when he told me that he said he didn't want to split up!
VictorM's answer:
I'm going to assume he's around your age. He's probably terrified of the idea of being a father. Just because he's not the one carrying the baby doesn't mean it doesn't affect him -- it does. I understand you need his attention, and rightly so, but he's having a hard time handling the responsibility, hence the "bitch too much" comment.
Asking for space is just a reflection of his inability to handle the situation. It's a reflection of his fears, not his feelings.
I have been with this guy for now 2 years off and on.....now I am pregnant and due in March and he has been doing some drugs and he told me that I bitch too much so he needs his space but now he won't even talk to me. What does this mean? And when he told me that he said he didn't want to split up!
VictorM's answer:
I'm going to assume he's around your age. He's probably terrified of the idea of being a father. Just because he's not the one carrying the baby doesn't mean it doesn't affect him -- it does. I understand you need his attention, and rightly so, but he's having a hard time handling the responsibility, hence the "bitch too much" comment.
Asking for space is just a reflection of his inability to handle the situation. It's a reflection of his fears, not his feelings.
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