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Sunday, January 07, 2007
Trust issues with men
Cary, 32, from Chicago, IL asks:
I have been dating this guy for four (4) months, and I had explained that I had trust issues with men in the past and was going to therapy and trying to change my ways. I did accept the fact that he has a close female friend, which did take some time, however, it was his ex-girlfriend that was the next problem for me. Until recently, he invited me over his place and had thirty pictures scattered on his bed, eight of which were of he and his girlfriend (one picture of himself touching her breast). I don't mind that he has pictures of her, but to have them scattered on his bed in bird's eye view, caught me off guard. Again, if he respected me, why didn't he put away the picture knowing I was coming over?
VictorM's answer:
Come on!!! This guy is rude to the core. You shouldn't accept that he has pictures of his ex around, much less spread out as you describe. The ex is gone and so should her pictures. Even if you had not told him about your issues, having those pictures out was plain stupid; but after what you told him, that was plain cruel.
This guy has a sadistic streak. I'm not kidding! Dump him or you're going to regret it many times over.
I have been dating this guy for four (4) months, and I had explained that I had trust issues with men in the past and was going to therapy and trying to change my ways. I did accept the fact that he has a close female friend, which did take some time, however, it was his ex-girlfriend that was the next problem for me. Until recently, he invited me over his place and had thirty pictures scattered on his bed, eight of which were of he and his girlfriend (one picture of himself touching her breast). I don't mind that he has pictures of her, but to have them scattered on his bed in bird's eye view, caught me off guard. Again, if he respected me, why didn't he put away the picture knowing I was coming over?
VictorM's answer:
Come on!!! This guy is rude to the core. You shouldn't accept that he has pictures of his ex around, much less spread out as you describe. The ex is gone and so should her pictures. Even if you had not told him about your issues, having those pictures out was plain stupid; but after what you told him, that was plain cruel.
This guy has a sadistic streak. I'm not kidding! Dump him or you're going to regret it many times over.
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