Monday, January 15, 2007
One or the Other?
Jack, 44
BC Canada
Asks:
How would you handle this? You have a former boyfriend that you want to give another try. But you have some sexual feelings for some else. The ex gives the best blowjobs ever. The other doesn't do that stuff.
Lee's Thoughts:
Assuming for one second that blow-jobs are not the ultimate test of a lasting and fulfilling relationship. I'd just go out with both for a while and see which you connect with best. Why not? Just be open with both of them that you are not dating anyone exclusively right now. As long as you are honest, there's nothing to be guilty about. We're all adults, right?
As for the blowjobs, if one guy isn't doing it as great as he could. Give him some direction!! How else will he learn what you like and what you don't?
BC Canada
Asks:
How would you handle this? You have a former boyfriend that you want to give another try. But you have some sexual feelings for some else. The ex gives the best blowjobs ever. The other doesn't do that stuff.
Lee's Thoughts:
Assuming for one second that blow-jobs are not the ultimate test of a lasting and fulfilling relationship. I'd just go out with both for a while and see which you connect with best. Why not? Just be open with both of them that you are not dating anyone exclusively right now. As long as you are honest, there's nothing to be guilty about. We're all adults, right?
As for the blowjobs, if one guy isn't doing it as great as he could. Give him some direction!! How else will he learn what you like and what you don't?
