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Tuesday, January 23, 2007
Long term relationship for 16 years
SHANNON, 33, from TENNESSEE asks:
I have been in a long term relationship for 16 years that has had many problems. I ask him to leave months ago. After I asked him to leave I started seeing a guy I work with. In the beginning it was great, after about 3 months he said he is in love with me. We were together every Saturday. Now all of a sudden he is acting very different he says he still loves me and he even introduced me to his son. My ex is still in the house for financial reasons only for 2 more weeks only. My new guy says that does not bother him. So why do you think he just changed all the sudden?
VictorM's answer:
Your new guy is acting different because no one can keep up the intensity of the first few weeks or months. It's only natural that things simmer down. You're not specific about what changes you're talking about so I can't be any more specific than this.
(Note: This question was modified after Tara's comment pointed out something obvious. Oh well... I was still in vacation mode. :)
I have been in a long term relationship for 16 years that has had many problems. I ask him to leave months ago. After I asked him to leave I started seeing a guy I work with. In the beginning it was great, after about 3 months he said he is in love with me. We were together every Saturday. Now all of a sudden he is acting very different he says he still loves me and he even introduced me to his son. My ex is still in the house for financial reasons only for 2 more weeks only. My new guy says that does not bother him. So why do you think he just changed all the sudden?
VictorM's answer:
Your new guy is acting different because no one can keep up the intensity of the first few weeks or months. It's only natural that things simmer down. You're not specific about what changes you're talking about so I can't be any more specific than this.
(Note: This question was modified after Tara's comment pointed out something obvious. Oh well... I was still in vacation mode. :)
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