Danielle, 18, from Florida asks:

I've known this guy for about 12 years, I'm best friends with his sister. The guy is two years older than me also. I moved away a few years ago, and before i moved me and the guy at the most said hi and whats up. My first visit to my best friends house after i moved(i stay there for weekends occasionally, her family considers me family) the guy was hanging around me more, talking more and complimented my newly dyed hair. Each visit after that , it goes up a 'level'. My last visit a couple months ago, the guy kissed me on the lips several times while i was there, i was kind of in shock, didn't expect it at all. When i was there a few weeks ago, he had a girlfriend that i met several times that week, but whenever she wasn't around he would be slapping my butt or cuddling with me. One night she was is his room, me and his sister was in her room dancing around, he left his girlfriend came into his sisters room and started dancing with me from behind but i moved away a little because it felt wrong with the g/f 15 feet away. Also one day we went to dinner at his grandparents and i was sitting on one side of him and she was on the other and he was 'rubbing' my back with his fingers. My last night there we were playing a video game, just me and him, his sister was in her room, and we also had music on so once in while he paused the game and sang to me, then he got up and started dancing and put his shirt over my head, then later on he was giving me a playful lap dance. Later on i decided to go watch tv and as i was getting up to walk out, he kinda took his hand and held my hand gently so as we walked in opposite directions his hand softly rubbed against mine. I have no idea what to think of this. Over the years with the visits there has been cuddling, hugs, playful teasing, grabs/slaps my ass, rubs my legs, touches my knee and legs when he goes to sit next to me, or he'll squeeze my thigh. I live 4 hours away now so there wouldn't be any chance of actually dating him, if in fact he did like me. Please help me a.s.a.p. Thankss!

VictorM's answer:

He's horny as hell and wants to do you. Duh!

Sometimes... this is an easy "job".

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