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Monday, December 25, 2006
When is it OK to tell a guy that you love him?
lisarenee, 35, from los angeles asks:
For future reference, when is it o.k. to tell a guy that you love him? Also should the lady wait for the man to say it first or does it matter who says it first? Thanks for your recent advice, I'm working on it now and resolve to be more observant in the future
VictorM's answer:
If you and a friend go out for a jog, it makes sense that you two would jog at the pace of the slowest runner. With relationships, it should be the same way. For example, couples should engage in sex only when the one most reluctant to do it says so. Generally, that's the female. When it comes to saying the magic words "I love you", I think you should wait till the guy says it first because: one, guys generally take the longest to say those words and mean it, and two, the female saying it first often spooks the guy if he's not yet ready for that step.
Of course, just like guys wanting sex, girls wanting to hear "I love you" have nothing to lose by prodding their mates along. Just don't get greedy.
If you two are truly in love with each other, what's the rush? You'll have a lifetime of "I love yous" ahead of you. (That's guy-think for you)
For future reference, when is it o.k. to tell a guy that you love him? Also should the lady wait for the man to say it first or does it matter who says it first? Thanks for your recent advice, I'm working on it now and resolve to be more observant in the future
VictorM's answer:
If you and a friend go out for a jog, it makes sense that you two would jog at the pace of the slowest runner. With relationships, it should be the same way. For example, couples should engage in sex only when the one most reluctant to do it says so. Generally, that's the female. When it comes to saying the magic words "I love you", I think you should wait till the guy says it first because: one, guys generally take the longest to say those words and mean it, and two, the female saying it first often spooks the guy if he's not yet ready for that step.
Of course, just like guys wanting sex, girls wanting to hear "I love you" have nothing to lose by prodding their mates along. Just don't get greedy.
If you two are truly in love with each other, what's the rush? You'll have a lifetime of "I love yous" ahead of you. (That's guy-think for you)
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