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Saturday, December 30, 2006
My boyfriend hasn't worked in 2 years
Connie, 28, from Washington asks:
My boyfriend hasn't worked in 2 years. He plays his PS2 games all day, looks at porn, chats in forums and occasionally cleans the house. When I come home from work he is most of the time attentive and loving. Sometimes he will stay up all night and sleep all day. I have accepted that he will probably never work unless I kick him out. My question is: I am happy with the situation but should I be?
VictorM's advice:
If the roles were reversed, meaning you stayed home and he worked, no one would even bat an eye. You're happy. What's wrong with being happy? Why should anyone else have any say in it? To quote a famous song: don't worry, be happy.
My boyfriend hasn't worked in 2 years. He plays his PS2 games all day, looks at porn, chats in forums and occasionally cleans the house. When I come home from work he is most of the time attentive and loving. Sometimes he will stay up all night and sleep all day. I have accepted that he will probably never work unless I kick him out. My question is: I am happy with the situation but should I be?
VictorM's advice:
If the roles were reversed, meaning you stayed home and he worked, no one would even bat an eye. You're happy. What's wrong with being happy? Why should anyone else have any say in it? To quote a famous song: don't worry, be happy.
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