Friday, December 15, 2006
I went out with my ex after 10 years
Kelsey, 30, from Minneapolis asks:
I went out with my ex after 10 years. We had a nice time. He spent the night and we never even kissed. I called him after a few text messages, and he told me he was shy, but really wanted to get it on that night. He then asked me to go out again and we picked this Friday, but not a place. (he said that way we would have to stay in touch.) That was 2 weeks ago and I still haven't heard from him. Since I started contact every time, I decided to wait for him to call me. Is he really interested?
VictorM's advice:
No. After 10 years he tried you out again for size, but you're still not the right fit. Asking you to go out again is what guys say at the end of a date, whether they mean it or not. There's a reason you two are exes; he must have realized what that reason was.
I went out with my ex after 10 years. We had a nice time. He spent the night and we never even kissed. I called him after a few text messages, and he told me he was shy, but really wanted to get it on that night. He then asked me to go out again and we picked this Friday, but not a place. (he said that way we would have to stay in touch.) That was 2 weeks ago and I still haven't heard from him. Since I started contact every time, I decided to wait for him to call me. Is he really interested?
VictorM's advice:
No. After 10 years he tried you out again for size, but you're still not the right fit. Asking you to go out again is what guys say at the end of a date, whether they mean it or not. There's a reason you two are exes; he must have realized what that reason was.
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