Meg, 31, from Canada asks:

I dated this guy a year ago, I have known him for 10 years when we got together. It was like he was the missing puzzle. I have three children and he has one. We dated years ago, we would talk about future stuff like a long term relationship, he would always bring this topic up. He told me he loved me first, but as time went on I found out he cheated on me. I broke up with him and we talked a bit after. I was really mad and hurt so I let him know. He told me I really like you a lot but I'm not ready for the long term relationship. Now I hear from friends that he is asking about me, like if they have talked to me and asking how I'm doing and what I have been up to and so on. I wanna know if he is checking to see if I'm seeing anyone or if I'm still mad at him. I'm getting the feeling that maybe he wants to call or talk to me but then again I could be wrong, that's why I'm asking you because guys are so hard to read :)

VictorM's answer:

Do you still look fine? Boobies and butt still in place? If the answer is yes, he wants some of that again. See Meg, guys are like open books. :)

Of course he still likes you and wants to know if you're still available. Does that mean he's ready to call you? Maybe not. He may feel that the events that led to the break-up ruined everything. But he's at least thinking about getting back together or wishing he could. Just because he cheated on you doesn't mean he's not fond of you or is in love with you still -- he probably is. But he may also have a girlfriend or a wife and is just naturally curious about you or willing to cheat on her with you.

Would you go back with him if he wanted to? I have no idea, neither does he. See, women are the ones that are hard to read.

Labels: cheat, ex-boyfriend