Jessica, 21, from New York asks:

I was talking to this guy online and he told me that it did not matter what I looked like and that when it comes to being with someone it is all about what is inside not what they look like. So when I showed him my picture he deleted all my comments and blocked me on everything and I did not know why. So a couple days ago I got on my cousin's name and talked to him and he told me he would unblock me and he became my friend again on myspace and I don't know what to think about that? I don't know if he still likes me or what? Or if I should talk to him, I just don't know. Can you please help me here?

VictorM's advice:

Never believe a guy who says looks don't matter. He's only saying that crap because he thinks that's what women like to hear. Some women do like to hear that lie; they're idiots! Please don't be such a woman. Your life will be better if you're not so gullible.

My guess is that in his mind he had an image of you and when he saw your picture for the first time it didn't match his imagination. So he freaked out and did what guys do best -- he disappeared! After a few days, either he realized his expectations were too unrealistic or he took pity on you. Either way, if you enjoy talking to him continue to do so. You'll be able to gauge is interest by the amount of feedback you get. Just lower your expectations.

So, have you seen his picture? Please don't tell me his looks don't matter!

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