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Sunday, December 24, 2006
He talks a lot about sex
jessica, 18, from new york asks:
My guy friend who I might get serious with talks a lot about sex. I mean guys get horny but still... but when I ask him to stop talking about it he does. So what should do? What should I think? I don't know if he only wants me for sex or if he really wants to be with me because he is very nice to me and treats me good.
VictorM's advice:
He sounds pretty normal to me. Sex is a big topic for guys around your age. It just means he's comfortable with you, which is why the topic comes up. That he stops talking about it when you ask and that he is nice and treats you well is what matters.
If you start seeing him as his girlfriend, you will control if and when to have sex. Of course he's going to want to have sex -- he would be defective if he didn't -- but as long as he listens to you and respects what you say, you'll be fine. If he doesn't listen, then you can give him the boot... right on the groin!
My guy friend who I might get serious with talks a lot about sex. I mean guys get horny but still... but when I ask him to stop talking about it he does. So what should do? What should I think? I don't know if he only wants me for sex or if he really wants to be with me because he is very nice to me and treats me good.
VictorM's advice:
He sounds pretty normal to me. Sex is a big topic for guys around your age. It just means he's comfortable with you, which is why the topic comes up. That he stops talking about it when you ask and that he is nice and treats you well is what matters.
If you start seeing him as his girlfriend, you will control if and when to have sex. Of course he's going to want to have sex -- he would be defective if he didn't -- but as long as he listens to you and respects what you say, you'll be fine. If he doesn't listen, then you can give him the boot... right on the groin!
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