Kayla, 19, from Montreal asks:

My boyfriend and I get along real good. And we talk to each other every night before going to bed. It's become a habit for us. But on my way home from work tonight, I called to talk to him while riding the bus. He said he had to do something and would call me back in 5 minutes. And when he says that, he does. An hour later, he still hasn't called. Half hour later I called him again and find out that for the past 1 1/2 hour he's been talking to a girl he goes to school with, while I've been trying to talk to him. I asked him to get off the phone with her so I can talk to him. Seeing as how he would be seeing that girl the next day at school anyways. He didn't exactly do it but the girl eventually hung after being put on hold. When I told him how I didn't quite like that and calmed down after getting upset about, we started talking. Out of nowhere he had asked me to do something out of the ordinary and I realized he was "excited". I got curious and asked him what was he talking to that girl about. He admitted to being on the phone with another girl talking about sex! Sex was the important thing he had to talk about. Then says that he doesn't see what the problem is. Am I wrong for being upset at him for talking to another girl about sex while I was trying to talk to him?

VictorM's advice:

No, you're not wrong about being upset. You're only wrong that you didn't yank if penis right off his body and shoved it down his throat. I think many women would have done it.

I can imagine him getting carried away with the conversation about sex even if he had no ill intentions, but there is no doubt that he's entering into a world of intimacy with that girl that is troubling. Not to say anything will happen between them, but they are closer to it than a guy with a girlfriend should be with a school mate.

He was wrong in so any ways and he should apologise to you. If he doesn't... get a pair of pliers ready!

Labels: boyfriend, sex talk