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Monday, October 30, 2006
When he's drunk he shouts abuse
Laura, 19, from Jersey, asks:
I broke up with my long term boyfriend over 10 months ago because things were going too well and I'm not ready commit. When he's drunk he shouts abuse at me and gets aggressive and violent. I've tried everything and don't know what to do. Please help!!!
VictorM's advice:
The first thing you should do is feel very lucky that you broke up with him -- the boy is obviously a jerk. And no, the alcohol is not the reason; the alcohol simply unmasks his true personality.
I don't know why you're still hanging out in his circle of friends. You obviously can't stop him from drinking and from shouting abuses, but you can stop being in the vicinity. Sure, it would be nice if you didn't have to, but you'd be wise to seek new friends and new places to party.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
I broke up with my long term boyfriend over 10 months ago because things were going too well and I'm not ready commit. When he's drunk he shouts abuse at me and gets aggressive and violent. I've tried everything and don't know what to do. Please help!!!
VictorM's advice:
The first thing you should do is feel very lucky that you broke up with him -- the boy is obviously a jerk. And no, the alcohol is not the reason; the alcohol simply unmasks his true personality.
I don't know why you're still hanging out in his circle of friends. You obviously can't stop him from drinking and from shouting abuses, but you can stop being in the vicinity. Sure, it would be nice if you didn't have to, but you'd be wise to seek new friends and new places to party.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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I don't think he can yell at you if you aren't around him.
Well, he can, but you won't hear it.
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Well, he can, but you won't hear it.
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